[Closed] Trade Problems (Not really sure where to post this)

[Sinner]

So I'm not really sure where to post this, but I made a trade with a friend a while ago and I lent him my Arbalest crossbow and he has disappeared offline (more than a month) and I have no way to contact him to get it back. Is there a way for me to get it back or is it lost for good unless he comes back online at some point? I have included an image of the trade with dates and stuff. 

[Winter]

Hello Frogman, nice to see you around again.

Since Toes still had the Arbalest on his account, I have returned it back to your character NootNoot.

Enjoy!

[Sinner]

Thank you Winter!