Why new players dont stick to the mod?

[TriGun]

I bet there are veteran players that insult new players. But on the other hand, a lot of people insult. Not just veterans..
I can't comment on everything you mentioned but i will suggest joining a House. I joined CC when i was new and that really helped me get into the mod, join events, learn and etc.
I'd happily recruit your 4 friends if they stayed in the Mod. Though sadly not you from the few times I've encountered you on Public. But plenty of houses available I'm sure.

"Today I had an incident where I was called a hindrance to the team because I didn't bring appropriate gear on a ragnarok game"
You're not a hindrance. You're leveling your Character just like everyone does or has done in the past. On the other hand im gonna include this Screenshot of you actually being a hindrance.
Just because..